突然有感

看到一段问，类似你不能改变过去，但可以现在重写结局。
我只想说，如果你觉得这不是你想要的结局。在还来得及的时候，把句号变成豆号，分段号。把结局扭转了它吧！
最重要的是，你及时发现，及时发现还来得及！

人生啊！

月入数千，但还是有钱包空空，怕买了饭不够钱付诊费。所以，人生啊。。。你赚多少不代表什么。你用多少也不代表什么。因为，你赚多了，不是自己花光，就肯定会有什么人帮你花光。因为世界还要转，世界上的钱也在转。今天还在你口袋的，明天不一定还在。
不过，不要紧。还能赚，就还能花吧。。。
自然原则，由他吧！

别人。自己

今天要开始学下面四句话：
要把自己当作别人；
要把别人当作自己；
要把别人当作别人；
要把自己当作自己。

欢喜，悲伤，如果是发生在别人身上就不会过喜，过悲；
处身舍想，会明白别人的忧伤，顾虑；
既然别人是别人，差异在所难免，当以尊重；
自己管好自己，为自己负责，不推卸责任吧！

We can live only in the present moment

I read a book yesterday, still reading. It is a summary of The Meditations from Marcus Aurelius. It is a meaningful book, at least to me. It is a Chinese book, but it make me wanna so much to check on the original copy.

The first quote I hope I can learn well: We can live only in the present moment
This is a simple sentence. I believe most of the people understand what it mean. But not many people can really understand deep enough until you can apply it.
As a "fact" person, of course we can only live in the present moment. But the present moment is not only refer to today. It is now!
What it mean by when you eat, you eat; when you bath you bath?
How long you never concentrate on your eating? Not only food, but eating. We enjoy the whole eating session. The food is nice, environment is nice. This is a package, this is over all. But what about that moment, when you eat?
Yes, is deep, I don't understand neither.

But it bring to my attention about the present moment. Not to recall too much on what passed, not to worry too much on tomorrow or 3 weeks later. Now, is the time I should live it well. Now maybe is the only way we can avoid regret in future. Now maybe is the only to avoid history to happen again. Now maybe is the way to overcome what had passed. And we only live present moment once.

I hope I learn about NOW. Luckily NOW is so kind, it always here and it never too late as long as I still alive.

离家出走

如果我说我想离家出走一个月，你说好不好？
我很想，很想，一直久不久就会有的念头。
但是放不下，不是放不下工作，是放不下生计。试问有多少份工能给你一个月有薪假期？ 就算有，也不可能让你一次用完。
停薪留职？ 无薪假期？我好像永远都存不到这储备金。。。换工作的空窗期？也要有旅费啊！
但是说到底，还是决心不够。够决心，什么事不成？
都什么年纪了？ 再不实行，我怕太老不好走了！；）

08.03.2014

三月八日，妇女节。
马来西亚，或者应该说航空界发生了一件大事。一架民航飞机不见了。心里，好难过。虽然很不愿意接受他们可能已经遇难，但心底明白希望可能仅仅是个希望。
如果，有些什么我们这些外人能为他们做，能救到他们，我相信很多人都不会犹豫。
两年前的今天，我也在马航的飞机上，从上海飞会吉隆坡。
人生无常。我只想说，请你记住，不管发生什么事，我都爱你，如果我来不及或没有机会再告诉你们。

期待的感觉

不懂是不是年纪大了。在年三十晚的这天，我突然希望这天可以长一点，让人们可以一直在准备和期待中。
最近的新年相当闷，也不知怎样一下就过去了。还是准备及等待的感觉好。你永远都想再做多一点，再做好一点。
而且期待的感觉让人充满希望！
今年在新年前，能和很多好久不见的朋友见面。也真算不错了！
马年，好！